This article will characterize cults as groups wihich seek, through psychological destabilization maneuvers, to gain the physical and moral allegiance of their members, as well as control their thoughts and diminish their critical thinking skills. There is a tendency to think that vulnerable people have a higher risk of falling prey to cults. This is true. But stay at this postulate is reductive and can be dangerous. In truth, vulnerability is not a personality trait but a psychological state that everyone may experience at some point of their lives. Moving house, getting fired, dealing with the death of a loved one or a divorce are just a few examples of events that can result in psychological fragility and higher vulnerability.
People tend to think that joining a cult is something that only happens to other people, that cult members are strange and therefore easily recognizable. These beliefs are wrong, and people who believe they are safe because they are “stronger” or “more discerning” than others unconsciously reduce the analytical skills which are essential to face and defend yourself against this kind of group. In order to recruit individuals, cults don’t hesitate to exploit (and misuse) a large number of settings such as conferences, professional training sessions, educational support programs, internships and personal development activities. The common denominator of these activities is the search for a social group, personal development or learning opportunities.
The cult’s deology is not mmediately introduced to a potential recruit. The group first creates a social link with the individual, getting to know them and sharing things with them. The sect will then gradually draw the new person into its circle, first through discussion and then by having them carry out small and engaging acts (even if they seem insignificant). The increasing levels of commitment encouraged by the cult group will gradually win over the individual, who will be convinced that they have been free to make their own choices. Once they are firmly established within the sect, the new member will be subjected to the sectarian authority. They will ultimately be maintained within the group by a strong support system within the sect, and by being alienated and cut off from the outside world, generally as a consequence of the changes in the individual’s attitude.
The most important thing to do when dealing with someone under the influence of a sect is to keep in contact with them. The relationship must be respectful and positive. It is necessary to avoid belittling the adept’s new convictions or using words such as “sect” or “guru”, which may exacerbate the individual’s feeling of being misunderstood. Being patient and kind, as well as reminding the person that they are valuable because of who they are as a person and not because of what they believe is important. It can also be helpful to try and spark some of the individual’s old interests, ask open-ended questions without expecting answers, and encourage the person to express what they think are the best things about the new group, and try to find other groups with these same aspects. [1] Consulting specialized associations or organizations can provide guidance on the best behaviors to adopt around this individual. Lastly, if the danger that this person poses to themselves or to others seems significant, the facts should be reported to the relevant authorities as soon as possible.
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[1] https://www.unadfi.org/rubrique/aide-aux-victimes/conseils-aux-proches/